Sunday, October 25, 2009

We...Have...Raina.

Well, this is the blog posting we've been waiting to share for almost 3 years.  We are in a hotel room in Fuzhou, Fujian province, China.  And sitting in the bed with us is our precious Raina.  She is the most beautiful thing we've ever seen.  This day has been incredible... impossible to put into words that will ever do it justice.  We met her in a hotel meeting room, and it was one of the most memorable moments of our lives.  After taking care of some paperwork, we were back in our hotel room with her, and 3 representatives from her orphanage - the director, her main nanny, and the orphanage doctor.  They were wonderful people.  We spoke to them through our guide, who interpreted for us all.  They presented us with gifts, clothes, shoes, and a photo album they made of her life there.  This orphanage REALLY cared for her, we can tell.  After they left, Raina went through a very difficult - heartbreaking time.  She cried a life-shattering wail that rocked us all.  She is grieving yet another abandonment from the orphanage that is the only life she remembers.  Laura just held her tight for at least an hour as Raina clinged to her.  Her sorrow slowly turned to anger, yet when she wanted "down", and Laura put her down, she reached out her arms for Laura even through her tears.  After awhile, I began to distract her with some toys, and she warmed to the idea of playing.  We ordered room service, and we have now sat in the bed for almost 2 hours.  Raina has eaten crackers, Gerber puffs, dried fruit, fried rice, french fries, and she's drank Apple juice from a sippy cup, and milk from a straw.  She has already exhibited amazing skill at stacking cups, fine detail, - we are simply amazed at her in every way possible.  She is a glorious gift from God, and we are busting at the seams just looking at her.  Glory to God, blessed be His name... Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow.  We're looking at one right here.

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

how beautiful!!!!!!! your finally a family with this darling and I can't wait to keep following your journey! God truly is good and she is showing just how good!

so happy for you,
Liz (bethany board friend)

Anonymous said...

Jay, Lauren, & Raina,

What a beautiful site you all are!! Glorious!! We are thrilled for your family! We will continue to pray for all of you.

Tera Carlson and Family

Suzi Voss said...

Congratulations!!! So happy you finally have her in your arms!

Don and Sandy said...

The two of you have been such a testimony of God's love and grace. We are praising Him with you. The three of you look good together, add two boys and you will be the perfect family.

Sarah said...

YAY!!! This is the picture we have all been anxiously waiting to see today! Praise God! We will continue to pray for Raina's adjustment. Congratulations!

hollym. said...

Congratulations to you all! Enjoy your beautiful Raina. Soon you will be home with your sons and your adventure will be even more awesome! Raina is another gift from God!:)

God Bless your family,
hollym.(Bethany Momma)

Anonymous said...

Truly AMAZING!

Goosegirl said...

WOOHOO!!! Raina is beautiful! And she is yours now!!! I am so happy for you all. I am praying for good bonding and attachment and for health for you all.

In His Grace,
Sivje
(Bethany BB friend)

Goosegirl said...

WOOHOO!!! Raina is beautiful! And she is yours now!!! I am so happy for you all. I am praying for good bonding and attachment and for health for you all.

In His Grace,
Sivje
(Bethany BB friend)

Jennifer Mangnall said...

As soon as I saw the picture load, I had tears in my eyes. Congratulations on your little girl!!

JinMei's Mama said...

I understand that Raina was very close to her nanny & wouldn't go to others so you are making great progress. I've been thinking about you so much this week-end, remembering when we walked the same steps in our PuTian adoption. The Dr. keeps in touch with us regularly.
Donna DeBoer

Gail said...

i don't know what to say. it's like my heart is all puffy and full but the words to describe how I feel won't come out! Jim and I are so excited for you and are praying hard for you over today and the days ahead as Raina adjusts and learns to trust and be loved by two amazing people - her mommy and daddy. Love you guys. WE LOVE YOU RAINA!

Blessing Counter said...

So beautiful! Precious Heavenly Father, let your grace be on this sweet family -- most pointedly on Raina, Lord as she realizes the gift that are her new Mommy and Daddy and works through the process of grieving. Hold Laura and Jay tight, Father, steadfastly giving them the strength they need. And bless them all...we love them so!

Anonymous said...

Typing thru my tears. Congrats. Gods will has been made known thru on this day. So happy for you all.

Laura and Gary

Anonymous said...

I have chills as I read your post! This is such a special day, and I love that I am sharing it with you through your blog. I know firsthand the thrill of finally holding your child and at the same time the heartbreak of their grieving. Day by day with God's grace. SO happy for you! Amy & Andy